My family had the misfortune of meeting Edward Troy Stoffers in 1998.
Date of Birth: 1/11/1963
AKA: edward t stoffers, edward t staffers, edward t stoffurs
This man was brought to my home through my ex-wife’s drug abusing friend, Chyrell Montenegro. Chryell is the poster child for crystal meth amphetamine abuse, and if there happens to be a picture in the encyclopedia under “meth addict” you may see someone resembling this woman.
Under the influence of drugs and alcohol, Ed Stoffers lamented about accusations made by his own ex-wife that he had molested his own daughter and had no contact with that family. It was later learned that Ed Stoffers was charged in California for sex with underage minors.
I discussed with Edward Troy Stoffers on several occasions to keep crystal meth amphetamines away from my wife, Julie Bacolas, as she was trying to recover from a severe meth addiction and it was destroying my family. This man took that information and began providing my ex-wife, Julie Bacolas, with these drugs in exchange for “relations”, as he himself was a crystal meth amphetamine drug dealer.
https://www.havasunews.com/news/kingman-man...Edward T. Stoffers, 54, of Kingman, was arrested April 17 in reference to a Kingman Justice Court felony warrant for alleged dangerous drugs
My ex-wife, Julie Bacolas, kidnapped my children from my care and I received custody in a divorce proceeding I filed in 1998. Initially, I was granted temporary emergency custody, then I was granted custodial parenting of our common children.
While in my ex-wife’s care, it was determined that my youngest daughter, had been sexually abused by Edward Stoffers. A case was opened with the Glendale Police Department and audio tapes of counseling sessions with family counselor was provided to both Child Protective Services and the Glendale Police Department. During these allegations, visitation was not severed by the Superior Court for my ex-wife Julie Bacolas, but the perpetrator was not allowed contact with my children. Upon an investigation presented to the court by Colonel John T. Tavernaro, the background on this perpetrator was established with documentary evidence to the Superior Court.
After walking out on her children, the joint custody, and the visitations of her children, all granted by the Superior Court in our divorce in 1998, Julie Bacolas returned to the children’s lives in 2009 and weaved a false narrative that I, the father, fabricated a false story to the Superior Court in order to obtain custody of our common children, that my daughter had been molested by her boyfriend, Ed Stoffers. Although it was a known fact that custodial parenting was already granted to me and visitation was never pulled due to the molestation, Julie Bacolas still insisted on brainwashing and manipulating our common children in believing I had fabricated a story to get custody of our children, when in fact she always had joint custody rights. Behold a woman who cannot admit she deserted her own children for a known sex perpetrator!
My children suffered from severe mental illness, in part due to the trauma from divorce and their mother’s drug addiction. I tried to rationalize with these poor children that I, the father, had already been given the rights as the custodial parent and I was only seeking to end or limit visitations while the perpetrator, Ed Stoffers, was in the picture. Try rationalizing with severely mentally ill teenagers who believe their mother would never leave and desert her own children for a know pedophile, but that is exactly what the history of the divorce case was.
I attempted to show case files from the divorce, plan phone calls with marriage and family counselor, Rochelle Silverman, who had treated my victim daughter in 1998. Ms. Silverman offered to provide family counseling, but the children refused. My now teenage daughter refused to speak to her childhood counselor. It was more tidy in those children’s minds that their mother did not desert them, but their father had fabricated a false story of child abuse to gain full custody and eliminate visitations and contacts between the children and their mother. Although the fact of the divorce show otherwise, the manipulation and brain washing of these children were intense by their mother’s return in 2009.
The mother had a legal right to always be part of her children’s life, but she chose a life with her perpetrator boyfriend over contact with her own children. She left a joint custody agreement, visitation, and support of her children for a “lifestyle” with Ed Stoffers.There is very little if anything online regarding this disgusting human being, Edward Troy Stoffers. A post a couple years ago shows that he was arrested for burglary, but I could not ascertain if he was convicted and served any time. Thus the life of man who lives on the fringes of society, leaving a wake of victims in his path.
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